The Army might screw you and your girlfriend might dump you and the enemy might kill you, but the shared commitment to safeguard one anotherโs lives is unnegotiable and only deepens with time. The willingness to die for another person is a form of love that even religions fail to inspire, and the experience of it changes a person profoundly.
Sebastian JungerAn adventure is a situation where the outcome is not entirely within your control. It is up to fate, in other words
Sebastian JungerOften people who live through the trauma are nostalgic when it's over. When I went back to Bosnia 20 years after the brutal civil war, even people who had been badly wounded told me they missed those times. They were missing their more courageous selves.
Sebastian Junger