No man is nobler born than another, unless he is born with better abilities and a more amiable disposition. They who make such a parade with their family pictures and pedigrees, are, properly speaking, rather to be called noted or notorious than noble persons. I thought it right to say this much, in order to repel the insolence of men who depend entirely upon chance and accidental circumstances for distinction, and not at all on public services and personal merit.
Seneca the YoungerTo be able to endure odium is the first art to be learned by those who aspire to power.
Seneca the YoungerIt's all in your headJ you have the power to make things seem hard or easy or even amusing. The choice is yours.
Seneca the Younger