The man who does something under orders is not unhappy; he is unhappy who does something against his will.
Seneca the YoungerThe display of grief makes more demands than grief itself. How few men are sad in their own company.
Seneca the YoungerThere is as much greatness of mind in the owning of a good turn as in the doing of it; and we must no more force a requital out of season than be wanting in it.
Seneca the Younger