The things that are essential are acquired with little bother; it is the luxuries that call for toil and effort.
Seneca the YoungerHe grieves more than is necessary who grieves before any cause for sorrow has arisen.
Seneca the YoungerThe declaration of love may come sooner than expected. Take time before you reciprocate as this may simply be a statement of what they expect from you.
Seneca the Younger