What others think of us would be of little moment did it not, when known, so deeply tinge what we think of ourselves.
Seneca the YoungerVirtue depends partly upon training and partly upon practice; you must learn first, and then strengthen your learning by action. If this be true, not only do the doctrines of wisdom help us but the precepts also, which check and banish our emotions by a sort of official decree.
Seneca the Younger