Jesus is challenging that when addressing "who is your neighbor" and he has a lot of hard things to say about family, "unless you hate your own family you are not going to be a disciple." He is challenging the limits of our compassion and our love as if someone's kid suffers it should be as devastating to us as if it were our own kid. That is what the early church said.
Shane ClaiborneFaith is believing in the impossible because we have a God who is master of impossible.
Shane Claiborne[Jesus] said that they will know we are Christians - not by our bumper stickers and T-shirts - but by our love.
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