Just like the old adage--what you dislike most in other people is what you dislike the most in yourself--
Shannon HaleThe to Cathal was battered and only one wagon wide, with swells of hard earth where mud had frozen during cold ad rainy seasons. Enna tripped often, and cursed each time she tripped, until Dasha said, "Enna, you might watch your language." Enna grimaced. "I was. You should hear my thoughts.
Shannon HaleYou saw my leg?" "How can a man help what he sees?" he said. "And, if I could add, you possess a very fine leg.
Shannon Hale