The opposite of heterosexual desire is the eroticising of sameness, a sameness of power, equality and mutuality. It is homosexual desire.
Sheila JeffreysPornography as propaganda, according to feminist analysis, represents women as objects who love to be abused, and teaches men practices of degradation and abuse to carry out upon women.
Sheila JeffreysWomen are prevented by the threat and reality of male violence from entering public space on equal terms with male citizens.
Sheila JeffreysMasculinity is part of a binary and requires its opposite, since, in the absence of femininity, masculinity would have no meaning.
Sheila JeffreysThe bonding of women that is woman-loving, or Gyn/affection, is very different from male bonding. Male bonding has been the glue of male dominance. It has been based upon recognition of the difference men see between themselves and women, and is a form of the behaviour, masculinity, that creates and maintains male powerโฆ Male comradeship/bonding depends upon energy drained from women.
Sheila JeffreysMen have been adjudicating on what women are, and how they should behave, for millennia through the institutions of social control such as religion, the medical profession, psychoanalysis, the sex industry. Feminists have fought to remove the definition of what a woman is from these masculine institutions and develop their own understandings.
Sheila Jeffreys