Because of his hormones, he only has three emotions: crabby, hungry, horny.
Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.
If you can't convince 'em, confuse 'em.
Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.
The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.