Heterosexuality - whichever gender you are - says that the other gender is very important to you.
Shirley Geok-lin LimI don't really get into the power sufficiently, and that's also a problem for me.
Shirley Geok-lin LimAs a first-generation "Asian American woman," for one thing, I knew there was no such thing as an "Asian American woman." Within this homogenizing labeling of an exotica, I knew there were entire racial/national/cultural/sexual-preferenced groups, many of whom find each other as alien as mainstream America apparently finds me.
Shirley Geok-lin Lim