I don't know where to place my body. Everyone notices that about me. I'm very restless.
Shirley Geok-lin LimThe things that I dislike passionately, I have come to realize, are also part of me.
Shirley Geok-lin LimI also wanted to be like my brothers, physically, and yet not physically. So I would constantly - and I think nowadays it's taken for granted that this is what girlfriends do - I would constantly wear their shorts, put on their shirts. That did not seem odd because we were desperately poor for quite a while. It wasn't as if pretty little girlie things were available to me.
Shirley Geok-lin Lim