At first, there is something you expect of life. Later, there is what life expects of you. By the time you realize these are the same, it can be too late for expectations. What we are being, not what we are to be. They are the same thing.
Shirley HazzardFor most people it's easier to support an eminent person in deserved disgrace than an obscure one who has been wronged.
Shirley Hazzard... one doesn't really profit from experience; one merely learns to predict the next mistake.
Shirley Hazzard