In New York, the buildings are like mountains in some ways, but they are only alive because of the people living in them. Real mountains are alive all over.

But you cannot know a place without loving it and hating it and feeling everything in between. You cannot understand a complex people by only looking at data—something inside you has to crack to let in the light so your eyes and brain and heart can adjust properly.

Writing is a supernatural thing.

I always tell my writing students that every good piece of writing begins with both a mystery and a love story. And that every single sentence must be a poem. And that economy is the key to all good writing. And that every character has to have a secret.

In New York, the buildings are like mountains in some ways, but they are only alive because of the people living in them. Real mountains are alive all over.

Since that night I have come to understand that sometimes the best families of all are those we create ourselves, the people we choose to be with.

Sometimes just being still is the best thing you can do for yourself.