You were unsure which pain is worse -- the shock of what happened or the ache for what never will.
Simon Van BooyI think anyone can fall in love, if you're open and you're willing, but the real test is sustaining it after all the excitement has worn off.
Simon Van BooyLanguage is like looking at a map of somewhere. Love is living there and surviving on the land.
Simon Van BooyI didnโt know who she was, but I had this fire inside me for someone I knew existed.
Simon Van BooyLanguage is like drinking from one's own reflection in still water. We only take from it what we are at the time.
Simon Van BooyBut say you do find the right people - how do you love them without smothering them?...How do you not suffocate them with all the love you've built up in their absence?
Simon Van BooyShould you ever feel too lonely...listen for the roar of the sea- for in it are all those who've been and all those who are to come.
Simon Van BooyFor some people, life is the process of knocking through walls to get out. For others, it is the building of walls.
Simon Van BooyWhen somebody leaves this planeโor, if you like, goes into another roomโthose left behind sometimes try and stop lovingโbut this is a mistake, because even if you have loved only once in your life, youโre ruined.
Simon Van BooySome studies show that we're physically attracted, like animal attraction, to people that have a different immune system to us. So even though I love cologne, it's probably keeping me from finding a good mate.
Simon Van BooyLanguage allows us to reach out to people, to touch them with our innermost fears, hopes, disappointments, victories. To reach out to people we'll never meet. It's the greatest legacy you could ever leave your children or your loved ones: The history of how you felt.
Simon Van BooyReading reassures us that no matter how alone we might feel, there are many others - spread as wide as history itself - who have felt the same way we have, who have occupied the rooms we find ourselves locked in at various points of our lives.
Simon Van BooyCould it be that first love was the only true love? And that after those first fires had been doused or burned out, men and women chose whom they would love based on worldly needs, and then reenacted the rituals and feelings of that first pure experience - nursed the flames that once burned of their own accord
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