Whether born from experience or inherent physiological or cultural differences...our gender and national origins may and will make a difference in our judging.

Recalling the aftermath of her father's death from alcoholism at age 42, this memoirist reminisces: I couldn't deny that our life was so much better now, but I did miss him. For all the misery he caused, I knew with certainty that he loved us. Those aren't things you can weigh or measure away. ... They're not opposites that cancel each other out. They're both true at the same time.

Without question, so many people, throughout my life, never think of Puerto Rico as part of the United States. Many people have no idea what the relationship is between Puerto Rico and the United States. And certainly, I have been asked if we are citizens.

I had many reasons for writing memoir but among them was the hope that every Latino child and adult would find something familiar in it.

A surplus of effort could overcome a deficit of confidence.

There are no bystanders in life [...] Our humanity makes us each a part of something greater than ourselves.

So they can create a class they don't like-here, homosexuals-or a class that they consider is suspect in the marriage category, and they can create that class and decide benefits on that basis when they themselves have no interest in the actual institution of marriage as married?