Endeavor to have always in your hand a pious book, that with this shield you may defend yourself against bad thoughts.
St. JeromeThe best advice that I can give you is this. Church-traditions — especially when they do not run counter to the faith — are to be observed in the form in which previous generations have handed them down; and the use of one church is not to be annulled because it is contrary to that of another.
St. Jerome