The best advice that I can give you is this. Church-traditions — especially when they do not run counter to the faith — are to be observed in the form in which previous generations have handed them down; and the use of one church is not to be annulled because it is contrary to that of another.
St. JeromeIf there is but little water in the stream, it is the fault, not of the channel, but of the source.
St. Jerome