The best advice that I can give you is this. Church-traditions โ especially when they do not run counter to the faith โ are to be observed in the form in which previous generations have handed them down; and the use of one church is not to be annulled because it is contrary to that of another.
St. JeromeNothing gives us a greater idea of our soul, than that God has given us, at the moment of our birth, an angel to take care of it.
St. JeromeStrictly speaking, one should not even rightly compare virginity to marriage because you cannot make a comparison between two things if one is good and the other evil.
St. Jerome