If you only have work clothes - the black trouser and ribbed turtleneck you got four years ago at the Gap - you're not participating in your own style personality.

Matching your hat to your shoe to your bag, or your necklace to your earrings, has a tendency to look dated. Mixing up your accessories adds interest to an outfit, and can make you look much more modern and polished.

Style is joyful if you allow yourself to have joy.

Any item in your wardrobe should satisfy one of two criteria: utility and joy.

Never let a trend get in the way of creating a great outfit for yourself.

Only buy things that make your heart sing. If I don't love it, I won't buy it.

I understand when u feel overwhelmed style is the 1st thing to go, but its also the 1st thing you can pick back up to get you back on track.