I don't argue style on the basis of tastes. If you feel like you've reached your personal best, don't change.
Being able to choose the skin I live in was the draw of fashion.
Style can change your look, certainly, but it can also change your life.
Finding tricks to create flattering body shape is the key to style.
Your self-esteem won't come from body parts. You need to step away from the mirror every once in a while, and look for another reflection, like the one in the eyes of the people who love you and admire you.
A lot of people have said that I'm super-snarky and mean. But honesty is the only way to get people to change. It's very important to be constructively critical - give people alternatives and you're giving them a new way to see themselves.