We don't fall in love and then get married; instead we get married and then learn what love requires.
Stanley HauerwasChristianity is not a set of beliefs or doctrines one believes in order to be a Christian, but rather Christianity is to have one's body shaped, one's habits determined, in such a way that the worship of God is unavoidable.
Stanley HauerwasA social order bent on producing wealth as an end in itself cannot avoid the creation of a people whose souls are superficial and whose daily life is captured by sentimentalities. They will ask questions like โwhy does a good God let bad things happen to good people โ such people cannot imagine that a people once existed who produced and sang the psalms. If we learn to say โGod โ we will do so with the prayer โMy God my God why have you forsaken me?
Stanley Hauerwas