When people can say to themselves - "What I'm doing is justified," there is little chance of their modifying a behavior.

When people can say to themselves - "What I'm doing is justified," there is little chance of their modifying a behavior.

We often say 'love' when we really mean, and are acting out, an addiction-a sterile, ingrown dependency relationship, with another person serving as the object of our need for security.

Recovery is about purpose and meaning in life, not “sobriety” and meetings.

People no longer know how to apologize, which is particularly noticeable among athletes, politicians, and entertainment figures.

When spectators and fans say about drunken brawls, violence, and dog fights, "Well, football players are prone to these things - that's why we admire them," they are encouraging terribly detrimental behavior. You might even say - a la Roman gladiators - they are egging on this behavior.

Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha have written the essential corrective to the evolutionary psychology literature.