You should show encouragement whenever you can. People try harder when they know that someone cares about them.
Stephanie PerkinsForeign novels are less action-oriented. They have a different pace; theyโre more reflective. They challenge us to look for the story, find the story within the story.
Stephanie PerkinsHow many times can our emotions be tied to someone else's - be pulled and stretched and twisted - before they snap? Before they can never be mended again?
Stephanie PerkinsI am hard on myself. But isn't it better to be honest about these things before someone else can use them against you? Before someone else can break your heart? Isn't it better to break it yourself?
Stephanie PerkinsThe more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you.
Stephanie PerkinsBecause that's the thing about depression. When I feel it deeply, I don't want to let it go. It becomes a comfort. I want to cloak myself under its heavy weight and breathe it into my lunges. I want to nurture it, grow it, cultivate it. It's mine. I want to check out with it, drift asleep wrapped in its arms and not wake up for a long, long time.
Stephanie PerkinsI'm not interested in making what's easy. I'm interested in making what's beautiful.
Stephanie PerkinsI donโt understand why things always go from perfect to weird with us. Itโs like weโre incapable of normal human interaction.
Stephanie PerkinsSo what do I wish for? Something I'm not sure I want? Someone I'm not sure I need? Or someone I know I can't have?
Stephanie PerkinsI pull back, gasping for breath. Reeling. His breath is ragged, and I place my hands on his cheeks to steady him. "Is this okay?" I whisper. "Are you okay?" His reply is anguished. Honest. "I love you."
Stephanie PerkinsWhatโd I tell you about musicians? That bad boy type will only break your heart.
Stephanie PerkinsI wish friends held hands more often, like the children I see on the streets sometimes. I'm not sure why we have to grow up and get embarrassed about it.
Stephanie PerkinsI wish the world would swallow us here, whole, in this moment. And that's when it hits me that this - this - is falling in love.
Stephanie PerkinsI don't believe in fashion. I believe in costume. Life is too short to be same person every day.
Stephanie PerkinsJust because something isn't practical doesn't mean it's not worth creating. Sometimes beauty and real-life magic are enough.
Stephanie PerkinsI've always thought the best relationships are those that are as happy and content in silence as they are in action [...]
Stephanie PerkinsI'm saying I'm in love with you! I've been in love with you this whole bleeding year!
Stephanie PerkinsEveryone makes mistakes. The important thing is to not make the same mistake twice.
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