It's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things.
Stephen ChboskyLove pats are soft punches of encouragement that are admistered on the knee, shoulder, and arm.
Stephen Chbosky