Men who define themselves as breadwinners are going to have to leave the traditional iconography of masculinity behind if they want to be breadwinners.

Whenever I read a book about a marriage, I always feel I'm being lied to.

Men are not taking women's job, which are good jobs. Being a nurse is an excellent job.

Marriage is not one point of view: it's a constant back and forth over different perspectives - a healthy marriage, anyway.

Men talk about masculinity through sports and clothes. They don't talk about gender, they talk about LeBron James and whether it's okay to wear lipstick and eyeliner. They're not getting to the question at hand, which is, "What does it mean to be a man when the traditional values of masculinity are eroding incredibly rapidly?'

I'd never call myself a feminist, and that the world doesn't need male feminists.

Men are losing power in their daily lives, but manliness is still iconic of power. This creates incredible turbulence around masculinity and incredible confusion around gender norms that's only going to accelerate.