All I'm telling you to do is to be smart about it. Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.
Steve HarveyYou can be happy, or you can be right. If you want to be part of a couple and win every argument, you're in trouble.
Steve HarveyA woman can't change a man because she loves him. A man changes himself because he loves her.
Steve Harvey