One can choose to obsess over prescriptive rules, but they have no more to do with human language than the criteria for judging cats at a cat show have to do with mammalian biology.
Steven PinkerThe typical imperative from biology is not "Thou shalt... ," but "If ... then ... else.
Steven PinkerI like ice hockey. No one is ever going to ask me to write about that as a metaphor for life.
Steven Pinker