Don't flail against the world, use it. Flexibility is the operative principle in the art of war.
Sun TzuIf you know both yourself and your enemy, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
Sun TzuIf we do not wish to fight, we can prevent the enemy from engaging us even though the lines of our encampment be merely traced out on the ground. All we need to do is to throw something odd and unaccountable in his way.
Sun Tzu