Begin by seizing something which your opponent holds dear; then he will be amenable to your will.
Sun TzuIf our soldiers are not overburdened with money, it is not because they have a distaste for riches; if their lives are not unduly long, it is not because they are disinclined to longevity.
Sun TzuThe supreme excellence is not to win a hundred victories in a hundred battles. The supreme excellence is to subdue the armies of your enemies without having to fight them.
Sun TzuThe art of giving orders is not to try to rectify the minor blunders and not be swayed by petty doubts.
Sun Tzu