One whose troops repeatedly congregate in small groups here and there, whispering together, has lost the masses. One who frequently grants rewards is in deep distress. One who frequently imposes punishments is in great difficulty. One who is at first excessively brutal and then fears the masses is the pinnacle of stupidity.
Sun TzuA kingdom that has once been destroyed can never come again into being; nor can the dead ever be brought back to life.
Sun Tzu