The roots of our grief coil so deeply into loss that death has cometo live with us like a family member who makes you happy by avoidingyou, but who is still one of the family. Our anger is a rage that Westerners cannot understand. Our sadness can make the stonesweep. And the way we love is no exception

A persistent breeze lifted the thin curtains, fluttering a few moments of tranquility into the turbulent day.

Would words shatter the immensity of life and death so close to one another?

For if life had taught her anything, it was that healing and peace can begin only with acknowledgment of wrongs committed.

I feel sad for him. Sad for the boy bound to the killer. I am sad for the youth betrayed by their leaders for symbols and flags and war and power.

love is what we are about, my darling," she says. "Not even in death has our love faded, for I live in your veins.

Do you know, Mother, that Haj Salem was buried alive in his home? Does he tell you stories in heaven now? I wish I had had a chance to meet him. To see his toothless grin and touch his leathery skin. To beg him, as you did in your youth, for a story from our Palestine. He was over one hundred years old, Mother. To have lived so long, only to be crushed to death by a bulldozer. Is this what it means to be Palestinian?