Jealousy is an ugly emotion, but it tells the truth. You mostly envy those who have what you desire.
Susan CainOpposites attract, and I think temperament is so fundamental that you end up craving someone of the opposite temperament to complete you.
Susan CainWomen were also urged to work on a mysterious quality called 'fascination.' Coming of age in the 1920's was a competitive business.
Susan Cain