When you're more focused in getting your message across than you are worrying about how people are viewing you, that's huge.
Susan CainIntroverts .. may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas.
Susan CainAsk your child for information in a gentle, nonjudgmental way, with specific, clear questions. Instead of โHow was your day?โ try โWhat did you do in math class today?โ Instead of โDo you like your teacher?โ ask โWhat do you like about your teacher?โ Or โWhat do you not like so much?โ Let her take her time to answer. Try to avoid asking, in the overly bright voice of parents everywhere, โDid you have fun in school today?!โ Sheโll sense how important it is that the answer be yes.
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