Remember that underlying all our fears is a lack of trust in ourselves.
What I try to control ends up controlling me.
I am not a failure if I don't succeed; I am successful because I tried.
There is an automatic assumption that negative is realistic and positive is unrealistic.
I said to myself: 'You mean all those people out there that I've been envying because they're not afraid to move ahead with their lives have really been afraid? Why didn't somebody tell me!?' I guess I never asked.
people who refuse to take risks live with a feeling of dread that is far more severe than what they would feel if they took the risks necessary to make them less helpless - only they don't know it!