If everybody feels fear when approaching something totally new in lifeโyet so many are out there doing it despite the fearโthen we must conclude that fear is not the problem.
Susan JeffersDon't be deceived into thinking that by changing the external, the internal will be changed. It works the other way around; the path that needs changing is the one in your mind.
Susan JeffersRejection never feels good, but it certainly hurts less when we are not needing something from the person who is rejecting us.
Susan JeffersWe all create expectations of what we would like to happen after a decision is made. The picture in our mind's eye might have served a valuable function in helping to make a decision. But once the decision is made, let the picture go. Since you can't control the future, the picture can create unhappiness if it's not fulfilled. Disappointment may make you miss the good that can come out of every situation in which you find yourself.
Susan Jeffers