Familiarity with your lover is what initially makes sex really good.

I got more and more politically active and just followed the course of feminism and sexual liberation

Human beings like variety, and they also like partnership . . . these are scientific values we can point to.

I'm a Mommy's Girl - the strongest influence in my young life was my mom.

So that would be a classic mixed message to young women: you should look a certain way that's going to destroy your reproductive system and your sexual appetite, but at the same time, you should be interested in sex!

Everyone wants to be a dyke now; everyone craves our freedom, guts, and knowing looks.

I had a hard time publishing my books in the beginning of my career, because editors were afraid what people would think of THEM, personally, if their name was associated with me