My idea of the ideal sex education site doesn't exist.

You have to calendar time for yourself even if you have no idea what youre going to do with it.

I'm like the kid in kindergarten; I really do send valentines to everyone.

Photographs have always been the tar baby of censors and obscenity laws. Literature can certainly (if it's any good) conjure up the most pornographic imagination. But photographs dare to be real. No matter how contrived or constructed they are, there's that damn body staring you in the face.

I got more and more politically active and just followed the course of feminism and sexual liberation

Finding people who get enormous pleasure from reading books is a more and more unusual experience, and so writers just so much want to be heard.

Human beings like variety, and they also like partnership . . . these are scientific values we can point to.