Who would you want to be giving you advice? Somebody who doesn't have any money?

When you undervalue who you are, the world will undervalue what you do and vice versa.

You can have all the money in the world. You can be a multi-billionaire, but if you do not have your health it means nothing. Your health is the No. 1 important thing in your life.

Focus on what you have.

If the boss is a jerk, get over it. First of all, don't you think there's a good chance that your boss's boss knows what's going on? If so, just keep your head down and do the work. Usually, if you put in maximum effort and produce excellent results, someone in the company is going to take notice. Either you will get promoted or your jerky boss will get the heave-ho. It happens all the time.

Opposites may attract, but I wouldn't put my money on a relationship of financial opposites.

The only way you will ever permanently take control of your financial life is to dig deep and fix the root problem.