I think the thing that people do wrong today is that they pray for external validation.
Know when your space is too small for you...and you have to birthed to the next level!
I think many people have an illusion of success based on entering in at a level that's higher than their experiences.
My father was a Methodist and my mother was a Baptist.
I grew up in hospitals. My father was sick. So I grew up in hospitals from the age of 10. Got to see a lot of suffering.
It is possible for you to get a grip on the thing that used to have a grip on you. And instead of it controlling you- you are now controlling it.