We die to each other daily. What we know of other people is only our memory of the moments during which we knew them. And they have changed since then. To pretend that they and we are the same is a useful and convenient social convention which must sometimes be broken. We must also remember that at every meeting we are meeting a stranger.
T. S. EliotOf lovers whose bodies smell of each other Who think the same thoughts without need of speech
T. S. EliotFootfalls echo in the memory, down the passage we did not take, towards the door we never opened, into the rose garden.
T. S. EliotYou must not on any account give me credit for being penetrating. I have impressed people that way before, and the result is always disaster.
T. S. Eliot