"Girly" can be limiting if you're told it's the only option. I don't think the solution is to get rid of the girly stuff or decide it's oppressive and get mad at a singer or book for not ACCURATELY REPRESENTING ALL WOMEN. There just needs to be more options for girls who don't identify with the girly aesthetic, and can broaden the idea of what being a girl means. Similarly, there needs to be more of that stuff that can be aesthetically girly, but feminist in the actual message.
Tavi GevinsonI always joke that I'd like to be a cat 'cause then I'll have nine lives, and then I can do like everything. But that's really hard.
Tavi GevinsonIf you are intimidated by the artists who came before you, understand you too have a place, right next to them.
Tavi GevinsonThe idea that feeling confident and feeling misunderstood are mutually exclusive really bugs me.
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