At one point, I had 14 pairs of golf shoes.
I dress up for awards, but only if somebody else is going to pay for the clothes. And shop for them, too!
It's kind of fun to be sexy.
The one thing I think you must do is, as painful as it is as a parent, is listen.
In your teens, you think you know everything, and you know nothing. By your thirties, you're sure you know nothing, but you're happy with that.
I have always loathed working out.