In my earliest memory, my grandfather is bald as a stone and he takes me to see the tigers.
Tea ObrehtSuddenness," he says. " You do not prepare, you do not explain, you do not apologize. Suddenly, you go. And with you, you take all contemplation, all consideration of your own departure. All the suffering that would have come from knowing comes after you are gone, and you are not a part of it.
Tea ObrehtEverything necessary to understand my grandfather lies between two stories: the story of the tigerโs wife, and the story of the deathless man. These stories run like secret rivers through all the other stories of his life โ of my grandfatherโs days in the army; his great love for my grandmother; the years he spent as a surgeon and a tyrant of the University. One, which I learned after his death, is the story of how my grandfather became a man; the other, which he told to me, is of how he became a child again.
Tea ObrehtFor me it was a lot harder to come to terms with the death of my grandfather than it was to come to terms with what's happened to the former Yugoslavia.
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