The only calibration that counts is how much heart people invest, how much they ignore their fears of being hurt or caught out or humiliated. And the only thing people regret is that they didn't live boldly enough, that they didn't invest enough heart, didn't love enough. Nothing else really counts at all.
Ted HughesHe could not stand. It was not That he could not thrive, he was born With everything but the will โ That can be deformed, just like a limb. Death was more interesting to him. Life could not get his attention.
Ted HughesWhatโs writing really about? Itโs about trying to take fuller possession of the reality of your life.
Ted HughesI shall also take you forth and carve our names together in a yew tree, haloed with stars.
Ted HughesThat's the paradox: the only time most people feel alive is when they're suffering, when something overwhelms their ordinary, careful armour, and the naked child is flung out onto the world. That's why the things that are worst to undergo are best to remember. But when that child gets buried away under their adaptive and protective shellsโhe becomes one of the walking dead, a monster.
Ted Hughes