You solve it as you get older, when you reach the point where you've tasted so much that you can somehow sacrifice certain things more easily, and you have a more tolerant view of things like possessiveness (your own) and a broader acceptance of the pains and the losses.
Ted HughesI shall also take you forth and carve our names together in a yew tree, haloed with stars.
Ted HughesYou could become internationally famous - you're Gemini, and according to antique authority have a literary talent, which of course your letters prove.
Ted HughesDo as you like with me. I'm your parcel. I have only our address on me. Open me, or readdress me.
Ted Hughes