There are only two roads that lead to something like human happiness. They are marked by the words . . . love and achievement. . . . Inorder to be happy oneself it is necessary to make at least one other person happy. . . . The secret of human happiness is not inself-seeking but in self-forgetting.
Theodor ReikIn our civilization, men are afraid that they will not be men enough and women are afraid that they might be considered only women.
Theodor Reik