The lover is a monotheist who knows that other people worship different gods but cannot himself imagine that there could be other gods.
Theodor ReikThere are only two roads that lead to something like human happiness. They are marked by the words . . . love and achievement. . . . Inorder to be happy oneself it is necessary to make at least one other person happy. . . . The secret of human happiness is not inself-seeking but in self-forgetting.
Theodor Reik