The worm that destroys you is the temptation to agree with your critics, to get their approval.
Thomas HarrisThere is a common emotion we all recognize and have not yet named -- the happy anticipation of being able to feel contempt.
Thomas HarrisI think it's easy to mistake understanding for empathy - we want empathy so badly. Maybe learning to make that distinction is part of growing up. It's hard and ugly to know somebody can understand you without even liking you.
Thomas Harris