We assume that others are receiving the kind of appreciation we want for ourselves, and we proceed on the assumption that since we are not loveable as we are, we must become lovable under false pretenses, as if we were something better than we are.
Thomas MertonThe whole idea of compassion is based on a keen awareness of the other.... The whole purpose of life is to live by love.
Thomas MertonLove not only prefers the good of another to my own, but it does not even compare the two.
Thomas Merton