None of our prayers should ever be petitions for our own needs: for this is only another subtle way of trying to put ourselves on the same plane as God โ acting as if we had no needs, as if we were not creatures, not dependent on Him.
Thomas MertonTo worship our false selves is to worship nothing. And the worship of nothing is hell.
Thomas MertonLife consists in learning to live on one's own, spontaneous, freewheeling: to do this one must recognize what is one's own-be familiar and at home with oneself. This means basically learning who one is, and learning what one has to offer to the contemporary world, and then learning how to make that offering valid.
Thomas MertonAnd that is why the man who wants to see clearly, before he will believe, never starts on the journey.
Thomas Merton